Too much as gone on since I last posted so I'm just going to do some bullets:
NG and I moved in together in this house I am just crazy about - it's like my dream house.
The girls still like NG.
X husband was found guilty of violating his home confinement and got sentenced to 1 to 10 years (the original possible sentence he could have rec'd when he got two years home confinement).
I had to testify at the hearing. It was NOT fun. His atty was very rude to me but I was prepared this time and the prosecutor told me I did a good job.
We had a hearing on the charges they arrested him for (8 charges of telephone harassment and 1 count of stalking all misdemeanors) and he would not take a deal of 3 months in jail and 1 year probation. They have requested a jury trial. According to the Prosecutor it will probably happen after the new year.
I am having trouble financially. I'm not sure how I got in this mess, but boy does it suck. It's even weirded considering the fact that combined we are making 5-7k a month (depending on his overtime) bring home.
I saved this one for last - I think I am impossible when it comes to love. NG is near perfect but I'm still looking over the fence. I need to hash this out in more detail.
6 comments:
Glad to see you back! Congrats on the house. At least your ex won't be able to bother you much now.
Those of us who have been burned in love always have a hard time with it later...
I totally agree with blueydmuse. It's hard, when you have been burned before, to not be hesitant.
Sounds like things are going well, though. Hope the ex serves what he should and leaves you alone.
I have to agree with everyone else it's the whole once bitten twice shy thing. When you get a real jerk it's hard not to look over your shoulder all the time. I think it gets better with time though.
Lots of good and just a little not so good, and what did I tell you a while back about looking over that fence?
Well I don't remember right now, but it had to be something like that's normal, but don't throw away a good thing...
Your kids like him, you must too having made the commitment to move in with him, and maybe it's time to admit to yourself he is the good thing, and just enjoy life. Stop overthinking.
OR, you really have to ask yourself, what is it about him you don't like, can't stand, think is a dealbreaker... If it's a biggie, then you do have a problem. Personally I think you're just scared that it will all go bad at some point, and that's normal too...
OK, I'll shut up now and mind my own business! Glad to see you posting again though!
How did I miss this post? Congrats on the dream home!
I'm very happy to see you back and see XH is in jail.
Don't sweat the "over the fence" stuff. Your life has been unsettled quite a bit, and he represented a more settled existence - you still need some time to downshift.
I wish you the best of luck.
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