Why oh why when you tell a guy that a) you don't like to be smothered, b) you like your freedom do they not believe you? Is it like a challenge to them? I mean, me, I would evaluate my feelings about this and if I thought I had a problem with these I'd move on. I mean that's why I tell them this because if it's a problem they need to move on because I am not changing it - I need a man that can handle that I'm not going to check in or let them know my every move or not have a problem with not seeing me for a week or two. Yes, I realize there are not many men like that, but I don't really give a fuck. Take it or leave it but don't ask me to change because it ain't gonna happen. I think this "relationship" is on its way to the dump.
Remember, you heard it here first. LOL
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Get a man like mine, who works away from home for long periods of time. You have your man, but you also have your independence. It isn't for everyone, and you have to have lots of trust, but it works great for me.
Whoa, a week or two? I would have problems with a day or two...
I prefer about one night a week solo time. You just need it.
I was going to start out saying how you needed to find less insecure men. But... A Week or Two at a time? Then is really isn't much of a "relationship" at all now is it.
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