Life is Short - Don't Waste It!
Monday, June 27, 2011
well it's happened...got the call from V this morning on my voicemail. What a way to start the week. I'm going to pretend I'm on vacation this week and next week. I called and made an appt with an atty. I was for sure he was just going to give up. I can't help but wonder what prompted this sudden request for visitation. Well, he is going to be VERY sorry. I'm going to make sure he has to have a psych eval, parenting eval, drug testing and every other thing I can think of before he even gets supervised visitation if I can. And if that freak is getting SSD, I'm going to try to mess that up too - he had a job while he was on work release which means he is perfectly capable of working and request for the maximum he can pay in child support instead of that measly $50 he has been ordered to pay. I just can't believe he didn't just let it go and I know it's just because he wants to mess with me. I gave him every opportunity to be a Dad to those girls when we first split up and he tried to hurt me through them then, I can only imgaine what he will do now - he is a master manipulator. I am so afraid he will mess with their minds and ruin them like his dad did him. I am so worried.
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5 comments:
First, thanks for the invitation to read. I didn't realize you were blogging again. Yay!
Second, I'm sorry for all the stress that you're dealing with right now. Can't blame you for wanting to keep the kids safe. Keep us posted on what the atty says. Hugs!
Gah! How frustrating! I hope that you'll be able to set up all those hoops for him to jump through. I forget how old the girls are now but are they older enough now to know better if he says crap to them? I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!
Thanks for the invite!
Make him jump thru as many hoops as you possibly can. Don't give him the easy way out
Good on you to run him through the ringer, and make him pay more if you can. I was thinking along the same lines as Crystal, are your girls old enough to at least explain that their dad is sick because of what's happened to him in his life? Best luck with it all.
John
thanks for the invitation!
I too, would make sure that you make it as hard as possible for him to get what he's asking for. MAybe if he sees you're going to fight it, he'll back off...
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