Life is Short - Don't Waste It!

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Well, I had to turn off the email account because psycho was getting out of hand. The police came and took a report yesterday but I held off on them doing anything yet because after I sent the last email telling him what I was doing he hasn't called my work phone and left anymore nasty messages. I am quite confused as to whether or not I should do anything. One part says I should just to show him that I mean business, and then the other parts says if I do, the kids won't get to see him for well over a year and maybe longer because his home confinement will be revoked and he could get 1 to 10. One part of me says they will be better off without seeing him because more than likely it is not good for them, but it seems like the kids are happier when they are seeing him. It is all so confusing. I know I'm the parent, but I really am having a hard time figuring out the best course of action.

I finally got a couch and a TV. I bought this 51" projection TV for $200. The girls love it - so, I hardly ever get to watch it. LOL Unless I want to watch Drake & Josh or Hannah Montana.

The house is an absolute mess. Hopefully, this weekend I will get it in some kind of shape. LilGirl got her backflip last night at gymnastics - she was sooooooooo excited!!! BabyGirl's soccer practiced was cancelled - she was quite bummed.

I'm trying to figure out something that I would like to get involved in to help me expand my social circle, but so far am coming up empty. I've also thought of founding a Parents Without Partners group in my area because I really need a support network since I don't have anyone and I'm sure there are a lot of people out there in the same boat - but considering that I'm already swamped for time, is that possible????? Still pondering....

2 comments:

MB said...

Wow - sounds like you have a lot going on. I'm so sorry. Thanks for visiting my blog and for reaching out. I know it's hard...

Zeno said...

I hate to scare you, but do you think he might try to get to you through affecting them? If you are confident he would never do anything to them, that is one thing, but if you have any doubts, you should consider it.