Very good advice girls. : )

I think my main problem is mostly the way he has been talking to me lately. Used to be I was wonderful, miss perfect could do no wrong, the best thing that ever happened to him, and now it's like I can't do anything right and he is constantly looking for something I do wrong. And whatever I do right is overlooked. Not to mention his tone and word choice. I find myself thinking - buddy, if you would've talked to me like this a year ago we wouldn't be where we are today. I feel he is being emotionally abusive really. I understand he's unhappy stressed out whatever but that doesn't give him the right to talk to me like dirt. I don't and I expect the same and we had this conversation about a year ago and he was always respectfully communicating his displeasure but lately he seems to have changed and I'm not sure why. I guess I could bring it up again, but damn it, we're 40 years old - does he really need to be reminded how to treat someone he loves? Maybe I'm just PMSing (it is that time), but I am really mad and I don't think he has a clue. This evening after he left, I felt like just gathering up my shit and leaving. He is so annoyed by us, fine we'll leave - see how happy he is all alone and no one to blame for everything that goes wrong. That was how I felt. Not good I know, but I know what I'm feeling. I am going to talk to him about it, but I have to wait because we only see each other for like an hour a day where he works night and I work days. He acts like he is the only one stressed out about things or the only one doing anything. I'd like him to be me for a day.

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